Note that the DB does quite a lot for you: it enforces serializability, locks, your logical constraints, etc. If the DB is distributed (Vitesse, Cockroach, Spanner, Yugabyte), it does even more.
If you were to go Kafka-first… well, it isn’t impossible. But all those responsibilities now belong to you as a developer. And if you are thinking there may be multiple webservers handling user requests and passing them to Kafka, you have to solve fairly challenging problems.
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