Grant Fritchey digs into a useful Extended Event:
One of my favorite little bits of information about Extended Events is the fact that everyone running a full instance of SQL Server has deadlock information available to them, even if they never enabled Trace Flag 1222 through the system_health session. That captures the xml_deadlock_report which has the full deadlock graph. However, what if you want to capture deadlock info, but, you’re dealing the GDPR, and transmitting query values could be problematic? Enter xml_deadlock_report_filtered.
Read on to see how it works, though note Grant’s warning that this is a non-documented event.