I once had an extremely busy system where we had growing CMEMTHREAD waits. This is an unusual wait, and our question was: is this being caused by a single query, just a few queries, or all queries? We were able to answer this by setting up an extended events trace and looking at waits by query, but this had some downsides:
- Extended Events has no GUI in 2008R2, and setting up and testing the scripts took a bit of time (more minor issue)
- Generating wait information by query on a very busy system generates a lot of output, so we had to be careful to set up sampling and filtering so we didn’t impact performance (more major issue)
But we were able to use this to figure out that the wait was associated with all queries, not a few queries, which helped us down our troubleshooting path.
Kendra answers this (mostly) in the context of SQL Server 2008 R2, as that was the version the questioner had, but she does mention where later versions make life easier.